Meet Asian Women Online
Asia is a huge area that covers nearly 8.6% of the world's total land mass. There are literally billions of women in this vast area and perhaps millions of beautiful Thai girls, sexy Chinese women, sweet Filipinas, and many other Asian women who are interested in becoming mail order brides. With those odds just about any half way decent guy should be able to find a beautiful Asian bride.
Why Do Women Join Asian Dating Sites?
There are many reasons why Asian girls decide to get involved with International dating.
Poverty is of course part of the equation, but also they have heard from stories about women from their area who are happily married a man from the United States or the European Union or perhaps Japan or South Korea.
The vast majority of the Asian girls have been raised in heavily patriarchal societies. However, it is wrong to assume that this means that they are submissive. Often it means that they are looking for a guy who will treat them the way that they see women in Europe, the United States, and other Western countries treated on television and in the movies.
So when you meet Asian women thank God and Thomas Edison for Hollywood, buddy, because it let's these lovely ladies know how they should be treated.
In Asia girls often are still married off in arranged marriages in some areas. In the worst cases girls are still sold like cattle. Sometimes the women have never even met their groom until their wedding day. That is not the sort of relationship most Western men want when they go to meet Asian women. Most Western guys who sign up for a mail order bride agency are not looking to buy a sex slave.
They are looking for romance.
Asia girls are often frustrated that the men in their countries are not very romantic and that is one of the primary reasons that they sign up to be Asian mail order brides. Asian brides may be defying the wishes of her family to marry a man from a Western country, because in some Asian countries it is still taboo to marry outside of your own ethnic or religious group.
So, the point is, don't assume that you know that much about beautiful Asian women. A lot of the stereotypes are outdate, unfair, and will get you into a lot of trouble. Treat every lady as an individual!Most Western guys really are looking for romance even if they feel like they have to travel halfway around the world to find it and there are many beautiful Asian mail order brides who are incredibly happy to be romanced.
Choosing an Asian Dating Site
There are a lot of good international romance agencies in Asia, but most of them are focused exclusively on one country. ThaiLoveLinks does a great job for Thailand and JapanCupid has a lot of Japanese girls, but no one site covers ALL of Asia better than Cherry Blossoms.
Cherry Blossoms is one of the oldest international dating agencies, perhaps the first, and they have profiles of literally tens of thousands of women from across Asia. Check out our Cherry Blossoms Review or go directly to their website and see for yourself.
Asian Girls Vs Western Girls
Women from Asia as a whole are renowned for being kind, gentle and very good wives. Granted, not every Asian woman may be a good wife, but as a whole, most foreign men are very happy marrying a woman from Asia.
What do you need to know before you take that big step? Well there are several things you need to acquaint yourself with before you should marry an Asian woman.
Top 5 Reasons to Find an Asian Wife
For a western man, it's not difficult to find an Asian wife. This is for several reasons:
- In Asia you are exotic, rare and therefore desirable
- High status (if you are fair-skinned) - having white skin gives you status in Asia, light skin is much more desirable than brown skin
- Nice, western men are generally nice to their Asian wives
- Better lifestyle, a thousand or two thousand dollars per month in Asia can let you live like an upper class family (depending on where)
- Many Asian countries consider Western faces to be more beautiful than Asian faces.
First you should thoroughly acquaint yourself with the customs and culture of the woman you intend to marry. They may have aspects to their culture that are very different than yours, and you need to be aware of them to avoid any future misunderstands.
Here are some examples: In the past, in China, seeing a girl's parents was the equivalent of announcing your engagement to her.
Now, in western cultures, just visiting a girl's parents is a step forward, but it's not the same as putting a ring on her finger. However, in many Asian cultures seeing a girl's parents is a very important and sometimes big step towards engagement.
One good way to familiarize yourself with your girlfriend's culture is through expat blogs from the country your woman is from. Often expats give detailed, nitty gritty details about things that no local person will think to tell you.
You may also want to talk to your embassy in the country the girl is from; your embassy is a very valuable resource that can give you deep insight into the country. Often embassy staffs are experts on the particular country and understand it thoroughly. They can be a valuable resource to help you have a completely seamless, happy marriage.
A Happy Asian Marriage
Asian brides are often much more traditional than their western counterparts. You could generally say that they are more submissive and traditional. This has good and bad aspects to it. In Western culture it's easy to get into a relationship and hard to maintain one. In Asian culture it's hard to get into a relationship and easy to maintain one.
- Know the culture of the girl you intend to marry
- Decide whether you want to live in her country or yours
- If you are going to live in her country then live in that country before marrying her (things can be very different in another country and its important you like living there)
- Understand the Asian mindset, and how Asian relationships work differently from Western ones (You don't need to completely adapt yourself to her culture, generally you meet each other halfway)
- Know the visa requirements and all other vital info before making the big step
The key to a happy Asian marriage is to know exactly what you want in a woman. You should take your time to pick the right one. Western style "dating" is not nearly as common in Asia. If you want to understand Asian relationships, think of it like western culture 50 years ago. People stayed together longer, had fewer partners and were generally more conservative.
There are many reasons why Asian ladies want western men but the number one reason usually comes down to how you treat her. In many countries in Asia, spousal abuse is still rampant and in some cases women are defiantly treated as inferior to their husbands.
In some countries the sex appeal of Western men is also much higher than an Asian man.
When you add up the benefits, it starts to become easy to understand why so many hot Asian girls are interested in western men.
Things to Consider Before Seeking an Asian Mail Order Bride
There are many important considerations you need to go through before marrying an Asian woman:
Do you want to bring her to your country or live in hers? (if you want to bring her to your country, check the visa requirements beforehand)
Are you aware of all cultural aspects that come with marrying the girl? While not true with all Asian countries, in some countries you are pretty much obligated to support the girl's family and give them money every month. Ensure that you are clear about all of these things before moving forward.
If you plan to live in your Asian girl's country, have you already tried living there before marrying her? If not, its strongly suggested you experience life abroad in that country and see if it is the right lifestyle for you before moving ahead and tying the knot.
If you are planning on bringing the girl to your own country, are you aware of the visa requirements for her country and everything that will be required of you to successfully bring her over? (This can vary wildly from country to country, ranging from weeks to years, ensure you know beforehand)
The Advantages of Asian Women For Marriage
An Asian woman can be a source of extreme joy and happiness in your life. They can be loyal and faithful spouses for a lifetime, and bring greater levels of joy and fulfillment to your life on a day to day basis.
The advantage of Asian culture is people are generally very relationship oriented. They do not like "dating" or going from one person to the next. To the average Asian woman, her dream is to find a man and spend the rest of her life with him. She has no ambitions or intentions of going from one guy to the next.
If an Asian girl is sincerely interested in you she probably hopes that you will be the "one" and the two of you will share a happy and fulfilling life together. This also means as a man you may find it much easier to stay in a successful relationship with an Asian woman than with a Western woman.
The reason is that breaking up or ending a relationship is much less desirable to an Asian woman. If a girl is with you, she is probably quite serious about you, and is looking at eventually marrying you. Most women from Asia really dislike having multiple relationships or constantly breaking up with different guys. It's a very negative thing for women in Asia.
If a woman has had too many boyfriends in many Asian cultures, it can make it more difficult for her to find another boyfriend. This is because Asian men as a whole place great emphasis on a woman's "pureness" and how few partners she has had. The ideal Asian woman only has one partner in her life.
This is not always true, it is only a generality. Just understand that Asian women as a whole are willing to work to make your relationship a success as long as you will meet them half way.
Asian Dating Advice
For the most part in Asian culture, once two people are together its generally very easy for them to stay together. The culture as a whole pushes people in relationships to stay in a relationship. This is why it is advised you take your time. Carefully consider what kind of woman you want.
Then go through the trouble of finding the right one first, because once you do you will have a very easy time in your relationship.
My advice is if you need to get to know a girl first, be friends with her in the beginning. Then when you find the one who is right for you, date her and get into a relationship with her. It's important to understand that in many Asian cultures, after a few dates an Asian girl will more or less think of you as her boyfriend.
If you attempt to follow the Western model of "dating" several girls to find the right one, you may find it difficult and frustrating. It is possible to do Western style dating in the bigger or more liberal cities of Asia, this is just going to vary from place to place.
Just keep in mind that Asia is more traditional and understand the culture you are in - to avoid any misunderstandings or hurt feelings.
Communication is Key
The most important thing is communication. If you are with an Asian girl and your intention is to be in a relationship with her, or to marry her, you can be much more open about it than in Western culture. Intending to marry a girl is something that is highly praised in Asian culture.
Especially as a Western man, many Asian people will hold you in high regard and respect for marrying a local girl, and not just intending to see her for a few weeks and then leave her. So if you have these intentions, you can be much more open and upfront about them than in Western culture.
Indeed, depending on which country you are in, the topic may come up quite often. You may find many local Asian people asking you when you will be getting married, simply because you are in a relationship for a significant amount of time.
It's okay if you wish to wait for a few years, even five years. Or you can get married quite quickly too. Most women are more than happy to get married once they know you are the right one for them. A lot of it is going to come down to you, how you feel about it, and if you are ready.
We are constantly working to add beautiful Thai women, gorgeous Vietnamese ladies, and perhaps even some sexy Japanese girls to the profiles we currently review. However, many of the Asian personals sites are not up to our standards here at ILS, but we are always looking for new Asian personals sites we can add. Keep your fingers crossed.