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A Single Guy's Guide To Finding & Dating Mexican Mail Order Brides

Every year tens of thousands of Americans get on planes and fly six hours to Colombia, twelve hours to Moscow, or even fifteen long hours to Thailand searching for a sexy mail order bride when many of them could drive and meet stunning foreign women in just a few hours.

It is almost crazy.

We love talking about international dating, but sometimes it's important to look at places bit closer to home for dating opportunities. Or at least closer to home for North American guys...

Where is this magical place?

Mexico!

Mexico is often overlooked as a destination for guys looking to not only date but get married to a Latina. This is despite the fact that Mexican women are some of the most sultry and sensuous women on the planet.

Mexico attracts travelers from all around the world but North Americans, especially, can take easy advantage of its proximity.  Why fly all the way to Eastern Europe or Asia when you can reach any part of Mexico from almost anywhere in the United States under five hours by air?

The fact that the United States and Mexico have a long border and enormous cultural influence on one another makes Mexico an international dating destination like no other.

The history of the two countries is often depicted as a violent struggle, but the Untied States has been a beacon of economic and political freedom for millions of Mexicans.

So, nearly every Mexican woman has friends and relatives living in the United States.  Young Mexican women are likely to understand American music, movies, and sports.

Mexican women do not have the same sort of fear about moving to the other side of the world like a women from Ukraine or Thailand often have and they are confident they can navigate American culture.

They know that there are Spanish language newspapers, radio stations, and churches across the United States.  Even more important with modern television packages they don’t even have to give up their favorite Mexican soap operas, known as telenovela.

So, a lot of the challenges that Western men face in other international dating hot spots are not an issue for American men.  And if you have never seen a Mexican soap opera you are in for a treat.

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So, we're going to take a look at everything you need to know about the Mexican dating scene, and how to find love, romance and maybe even your future wife on a trip there.

But first lets talk about why you should set your sites on a Mexican woman.

Why Western Men Should Date Mexican Women

gorgeous Mexican girl winking

1. Mexican Women Make Great Wives

Mexican women in general are very strong and make wonderful mothers. They are often the glue that bonds the family together and are known for their strong work ethic.

Of course, the Catholic Church continues to wield enormous influence in the life of Mexicans generally.

If your Mexican girlfriend is from a less sophisticated and educated background, you can expect this influence to be even greater. Don't think of this is a bad thing; the positive side of the church's influence is the strong mothers and faithful and loyal wives it produces.

Mexican girls tend to be more conservative about sex than some of their Latin sisters further south.  Mexico is not Brazil, Colombia, or Panama.

Whether or not this is because of the Drug War or some other historical issue is hard to say, but Mexico has had a far bloodier history than any other nation in Latin America.

The bottom line is that Mexican dating can hold a variety of treats.  It is a great place to date.  Whether you seek a Mexican woman for marriage or just want to play the field, in Mexico you're sure to find a woman who will put a smile on your face. 

2. Mexican Girls Are Stylish

Mexican Senoritas are sexy.  You know that.  They have a strong sense of style and fashion even when they are not particularly well off.  They want to look good for their men and they do.

In fact, in recent years Mexico has had a fashion renaissance.  There is even a fashion week in Mexico City now.

So, that is all good, but there is a downside for men.  Mexican brides expect their grooms to be stylish too.

So, if your idea of high fashion is clean gym shorts think again.  Mexican women are probably almost as tough about the grooming of their suitors as women anywhere including Russia.

In Mexico you need to be clean shaven.  Oh, you can get away with a beard if it is immaculately groomed, but otherwise forget it.  Even then you need to carry it off with a certain flair, so clean shaven is just easier unless you are a fanatic for facial hair.

The same thing goes for your hair.  Generally, long hair is a risk.  If it looks awesome that is one thing, but if not just cut it off.   Most Mexican brides are going to demand their groom be clean shaven.

And in Mexico men are expected to dress well too.  This is no fashion magazine, but sexy Mexican chicks have a lot of ego and they are not going to go out with a bum.

If you are not up to all of this I suggest you head to the Philippines.  There most men dress in old flip flops, gym shorts, and ragged muscle shirts, no matter what their physique.

And that works there, but in Mexico City you are not going to be able to get a woman to so much as speak to you.

And the fact that most Mexican women can speak to you is another attraction.

3. Mexican Women Probably Speak a Little English

Regardless of their education level girls from Mexico are more likely to speak at least a little English, because of the long border with the United States.

For native English speakers that will probably be a big help in learning Spanish or teaching your beautiful Mexican woman more English.

And English is the most common second language so even if your native language is German, French, or Russian you can still communicate with most young Mexican women in broken English.

Actually, this approach can be nice, because both of you are growing and learning together, but again this is another place where Gringos have a big advantage. 

sexy, cool and close Mexican brides

Why Mexican Women Want to Date You

Let's get the cynicism out of the way before we go any further: It's not always about getting a green card, or visa.

That stereotypical view you have of Mexico as being some kind of downtrodden third world toilet doesn't reflect in the growing economy in the country.

In fact, that big country down south of Texas is booming!

Sure, there are problems, but what developing country do you know that doesn't have its own set of flaws?

Yes, dating and marrying a Western guy can offer any single Mexican woman more financial security, and a better standard of living, but there's more to it than that.

Looking for Real Love

The main reason why Mexican women want to date you is because they want to be in a relationship where they're equal.

Mexican men tend to reek of machismo, and because of this they expect to be dominant in the relationship, while their shy and retiring wife cooks, cleans and has babies.

Mexican men also - like most Latinos - have a reputation for pedelear otra bicicleta, or what translates to cheating.

The tiny irony here is that Mexican women both expect and want their men to be masculine, but not so over the top that they become a second class citizen in their relationship.

The main message to get across here is that Mexican women are looking for the type of loving relationship they simply can’t find with many of the local lotharios.

They Don't Want To Be Spinsters

Mexico is still a very traditional Catholic country, and with that comes the expectation that women get married at a younger age than is common in North America, for example.

What you might not realize is that at least 20% of Mexican women get married by the time they turn 18. In some rural areas women sometimes marry at even younger ages.

It's not uncommon for 20-something single Latinas to be told they're "...getting old", so Mexican women want to meet and settle down with a guy in their 20s.

This is the complete opposite to Western women who insist they can wait until their late 30s to meet their knight in shining armor.

And then hope that the fertility treatments work as advertised.

Or that there are any eggs left to fertilize.

What this means is that no senorita wants to be single in her 30s, and the idea of being single in her 40s is just short of a fate worse than death.

Marriage and having kids is deeply rooted in Mexican culture, and even though times are changing, the vast majority of Mexican women will be family oriented for as far into the future as we can see.

They're open to marriage and having kids in a way that most Western women simply would never understand.

What Are Mexican Women Like?

Unless you've been living in a cave for the last 30 years you will no doubt know who both Salma Hayek and Selena Gomez are.

If, however, you have been living in some sort of underground dwelling for three decades...well...please accept our apologies.

Both Salma and Selena are stunningly beautiful women, but are they the exception rather than the rule when it comes to what Mexican women look like?

Check out Aleida Nunez, Ninel Conde and Ximena Navarrete, for example, if you need any further proof that Mexican women are truly are some of the hottest in the world.

These women give you some idea of what to expect on the dating and romance scene in Mexico – women who take pride in their appearance and refuse to bow to the feminist nonsense that beauty isn’t something to be celebrated.

Mexican brides have drawn lonely gringos south into the Republic of Mexico for at least a hundred and fifty years and it is easy to understand why.  Mexican women are exotic.

Usually they have dark eyes and classical features.  They also often have an air of mystery that is very sexy.

But at the same time these ladies are among the most culturally similar mail order brides for Americans and Europeans.  Mexican cultural is largely Spanish.  Oh, there are some traces of Aztec culture left, but they are few and far between in most young women.

For the most part Mexican women have the same set of beliefs and cultural practices as women from anywhere in Southern Europe.  So, they are a particularly good match for Italian Americans, for instance.

And this mix of the exotic and understandable has been a huge draw for older Americans at least since the Mexican War.  Mexican brides are interesting and exciting, but they are not inscrutable.

Asian woman are often hard to read because of language and cultural differences.  For Slavic women being non-committal, careful, and reserved is a self-defense mechanism that makes a lot of sense if you think about the history of Eastern Europe over the last hundred and fifty years.

Sometimes Russian girls just want to keep their heads down and not take any risks, because they have been told doing otherwise is dangerous.

With your average senorita what you see is what you get.  A Mexican bride might be shy or she might be the classic fiery Latina, but what you see is what you get.

Mexican Women Love to Flirt

In Mexico flirting is a high art form.  In fact, Mexican girls maybe the most accomplished flirts anywhere.

They smile and laugh and giggle. A sexy Mexican woman will reel men and toss them right back with out a thought for busted egos or broken hearts.

Beautiful Mexican women obviously enjoy the romantic chase, but when a senorita gets serious about a man she is usually completely serious.

Maybe, this is because Mexican ladies have flirted enough that they know just what they want in a man and when she sees him she commits.

Well, whatever the reason when she is in she is in.

What Do Mexican Women Look Like?

Mexican women make great wives

Very few women here are what could be considered tall, or not unless you consider 5-feet 2-inches to be above average height.

In fact, most of them are as petite as Salma Hayek, but the smoldering dark eyes, long hair, and flawless skin more than makes up for their diminutive stature.

Or at least it does in our humble opinion.

Why are Mexican women so hot?

The Native American and Spanish colonial influences play a big part in this, but so does their obsession with healthy living and healthy eating.

You heard that some Mexican women can be a bit thick?

That's not a great way to put it - we prefer to say curvaceous, but it is true that very few of these senoritas are stick thin.

Does this mean they’re fat?

Very few of them could be considered even remotely fat when compared to the 300lb beasts found in some parts of North America and Europe.

hot sexy Mexican babe on the bed

You'll also find they are polite but passionate. They're caring and cheerful, but prone to become fiery when challenged or upset. They're sentimental but can also have moments of what appears to be insanity.

Or in other words...they're like most women.

But don't ever underestimate the force of a Latina's fury...just back off and let her cool down because she'll have forgotten the argument ten minutes later.

Mexican women love to dress well, embracing their femininity instead of hiding it. They also tend not to wear a lot of makeup because they genuinely don't have to, unlike Western women who spend more time putting on and taking off makeup than they do on most dates.

Your new girlfriend will have no concept of punctuality, so meeting her at 8pm means somewhere between 8pm and 9.30pm...but possibly 10pm.

Women here love to cook, and she'll do this every opportunity she gets once she knows you a bit better. Just saying "eggs" will be met with 12 different ways to have them cooked, so be decisive.

Oh, and they're really, really superstitious - and that includes very modern Mexican women.

There are a whole variety of things they won't do because "...that means I'll never get married", and these include sitting in a corner and having a brush run over their feet.

Yes, really.

What Do Mexican Women Want In A Man?

hot sexy Mexican girls dashing in bikini

Beta males, feminists and soy boys are out.

Sorry, but not sorry, guys!

You can forget about having a successful relationship with 90%+ of Mexican women if you're any of the former.

The reason why is that traditional gender roles are still the norm in Mexico.

That means men are men and women are women.

A strong, fiery Mexican woman has no interest in dating a guy who isn't sure what toilet he should use depending on how he feels when he wakes up that morning.

What Mexican women like in men include masculinity, politeness, dressing well, and basically not acting like an ass the whole time.

Mexican women dig gentlemen, so be a gentleman.

It's traditional for the guy to pay for dinner and drinks, although that's slowly changing with the current generation of single Latinas.

They're also not obsessed with age, so are usually quite happy to date older guys, although there are obviously limits on that too.

What's more important to them than age, social status, or financial standing is loyalty.

They want to build a family with the right guy, so any attempt at cheating or lying will bring your relationship with your sexy senorita to a screeching halt.

And it’s highly unlikely you’ll get a second chance with her.

How To Treat A Mexican Woman

We've already touched on the point that Mexico is a conservative country, and this applies to the traditional values found in Mexican dating culture.

While women from "developed" countries enjoy hopping in and out of bed with whoever takes their fancy, Mexican women are way more reserved. They have a reputation for being passionate, but they won't do that with just anyone, and especially not on a casual basis.

Yes, there are plenty of single Mexican women who sleep around, but the Mexican woman you want as a future wife is the one who doesn't jump into bed with you on the first date.

In fact, you'll be lucky to get a kiss on the cheek on your first date.

Disappointed?

This is actually a good thing because it's a sign she likes you, but she wants to make sure you feel the same way.

You can tell if a woman here likes you because she'll want to take things more slowly, and they're so warm and welcoming you'll actually find yourself appreciating this.

It's a real novelty to just go on a date with a woman without sex being the only outcome at the end of the night - it destroys any sense of mystery or suspense, no?

lovely women of Mexico

Some Mexican women will go as far as abstaining from sex until they get married, although this is becoming quite rare.

You should never, ever pressure women here into sleeping with you - she won't appreciate it and you've just painted yourself as yet another PUA guy trying to put the whammy on an inexperienced local girl.

The weird thing is that these same women can be quite flirty when in a relationship.

They even have a name for it - piropeo. Don't be surprised when your girlfriend refers to you as "mi amor", or "mi guapa" - "my love" or "my beautiful", because that's the norm here.

Flirting can even extend to the use of sexual innuendos, which are common amongst groups of friends.

So, you really, really need to understand the difference between an off the cuff comment, and an invitation to sleep with her.

There’s a huge difference, so be really clear about her intentions before you make any sudden moves.

Latina dating culture is probably very different to anything you've experienced before.

 It does take more effort, but the rewards are always worth it.

How to Meet Single Mexican Women

lovely Mexican woman with a sweet face

So, now that you know all about the women here, their psychological makeup, and all their likes and dislikes - how do you attract a senorita with the aim of making her your Mexican bride?

The first step is to dress for success.

Yes, we know that's a total cliché but Latin American women hate sloppy dressers. It's probably because they put so much effort into looking amazing every day.

They just can't wrap their head around why a guy would turn up with 5-day stubble, shorts, pit stains and then expect her to be happy about it.

Then your next and most obvious step is to line up some dates before you arrive.

You can check that requirement off your list by signing up to the more popular Mexican dating sites like Amolatina or Mexican Cupid.

Just bear in mind that Mexico has a population of 130 million people, and is a pretty big place, so try to cluster your dates into one city or state if possible.

You can use a Mexican dating agency instead of a regular website, and if you do then watch out for all the usual warning signs like being asked to pay in advance, being charged for every message, etc.

A benefit of dating senoritas from bigger cities is that they tend to be a bit more sophisticated and open to the idea of dating a guy from another country. The Mexicans even have a name for women like this "Chilangas".

Some of the cities popular with international daters in search of "mail order" Mexican brides are Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterrey, Morelia and Guanajuato.

Learning at least some Spanish will also give you an edge on the local dating scene. Don't assume that all the Mexican singles you come across will speak fluent English, because that simply won't be the case.

Dancing is part of South American dating culture, so you can expect it to be just as important in Mexico.

Don't worry if you're not a great dancer - most of these women have been dancing since they could walk.

Yes, they'll probably make fun of you, but the simple act of not taking yourself too seriously will endear you to all but the most stone-faced, feminazi senoritas.

So don't be afraid to trip up, fall over, and have fun.

You can score serious brownie points for having a self-deprecating sense of humor.

Mexican women hate cheap guys, so even though you might not like the idea of having to pay for meals and drinks, look at it as an investment in your future happiness.

A night out in Mexico for a couple might only cost $30, but for some reason Western guys will shy away from paying that amount because they feel they’re being taken advantage of.

But these same guys have no problem with dropping $300 on a date with some gold digger from LA or New York.

Go figure.

The trick is that once she sees you're not a cheapskate she'll be more than happy to go Dutch on the bills.

Just have a little faith, and take the leap knowing there's a reward for you at the end.

Where to Meet Single Mexican Women

So, where should you go to meet these sexy Senoritas? It's your choice; you can try dating Mexican women from the frontier towns of Matamoros, Brownsville, Ensenada, or Tijuana; to the beautiful beaches of Zihuatanejo, Mazatlan, or Cancun.

Or enjoy the delights of colonial San Miguel de Allende; or take in the sights of giant Mexico City.  Just be aware of your surroundings, listen to the local police, and don’t be foolhardy.

scenery and beautiful places in Mexico

One of the most popular destinations for men seeking Mexican girlfriend or wife is Guadalajara. This beautiful city is known as the city of eternal spring.  It has a great climate.

You can find claims all over the internet that National Geographic once ranked Guadalajara's climate as the second most perfect in the world.

The problem with that claim is you can find it everywhere but in the National Geographic, so it was probably created by a real estate developer or someone with the Guadalajara Chamber of Commerce.

The fact is that if the National Geographic ever did rank the world’s best climate Guadalajara would certainly be in the running.  The weather is fantastic.

Daytime temperatures in Guadalajara are typically in the high 70's or low 80's and night time temperatures are in the 60's. Mexican singles in all these different locales are constantly on the prowl for good foreign men. 

What About Any Safety Issues?

The U.S State Department advises against traveling to states like Sinaloa, Colima, Guerrero, Michoacan and Tamaulipas, whether you’re traveling there for romance or not.

The key is to play it safe, listen to what local police advice, and avoid travel to restricted areas no matter how good the dating opportunities might seem.

Apart from that you should follow the standard commonsense pieces of advice like not flashing your cash, don't leave expensive phones or cameras exposed in public places, avoid visiting unfamiliar parts of a city at night, etc.

Here is a map that Time Magazine produced from the information in the warning:

Mexico travel advisory

Mexican Visa Laws - Bringing Your Mexican Girlfriend Home

Mexico's visa laws are welcoming to all. If you want, you can easily visit for a few days, stay a few weeks, or take up residence for months or years at a time. The vast majority of foreigners in search of Mexican brides make for an interesting population of expats.

So, when you're not out in search of your Mexican girlfriend, you will find a wonderful group of friendly expats from all over the world.

And if you meet a Mexican girl that strikes your fancy and you decide to bring her back home for a visit, unlike many other countries, tourist visas to visit the US for up to 6 months are fairly easy to obtain for a woman from Mexico if she has a steady job.

For our Canadian readers, the news is even better. A Mexican lady can enter Canada without even obtaining a visa. All they need is a passport, which any Mexican woman can obtain, unless they have a criminal record - in which case you really need to rethink your choice in potential mates, buddy!

Summing It Up

We hope that you've now realized just what an amazing place Mexico is for guys looking to find exotic women for romance and marriage.

Women here are just like Western women in that they want to meet a guy to fall in love with.

The big difference is that they're not carrying all the psychological baggage that Western women are, and they're also free of all the expectancy and diva routines that Western guys are all too familiar with.

Do yourself a favor and at least register for an account on Amolatina or Mexican Cupid. You'll be pleasantly surprised by just how many stunning single Mexican women you find.

And they're looking for guys just like you.