The best place to see tons of gorgeous Chinese women is probably Cherry Blossoms.  They got thousands of beautiful Chinese ladies and it's one of the oldest most respected web sites in the international dating industry.

Chinese Brides

Can’t find the bride of your dreams?  Well, there are over 600,000,000 Chinese women and the odds are that one of them would be right for you.  There is a lot more diversity among Chinese women than outsiders usually realize. Yes, about 90% of the population is Han Chinese, the people generally referred to as Chinese, but that means that there are well over 100 million ethnic minorities living in China, which is like a whole other country or two.

Unless you’ve been living under a bridge in Wisconsin for the last twenty years you know that China's economy has changed from a centrally planned system that was largely closed to international trade to a more market-oriented economy that has a rapidly growing private sector and is a major player in the global economy. And, unlike many countries, the Chinese brides signing up to meet foreign men are often not economically deprived or socially isolated.

In fact, the Chinese women signing up to become modern mail order brides are among the country’s most beautiful and intelligent young women.  Most of the Chinese brides tend to have good jobs in one of the big cities.  Most Chinese men believe these beautiful, successful young women should be happy, but the women have access to the internet and a lot of international television and films.

The government controls access to a lot of political and news websites, but a Chinese bride can still watch Oprah, or one of her many Asian imitators from Taiwan or Hong Kong, read Cosmopolitan, Vogue, and all of those Nicholas Sparks novels, and sign on to a million women’s websites.

Generally, a Chinese bride does have it pretty good by almost any international standards.  BUT she knows that the women have a higher status in Western countries and that is the forbidden fruit that attracts most Chinese mail order brides to the internet. They are not desperate. There are certainly enough men for them to choose from in China.  In fact, because of the pressures of the one child policy per family policy, there are approximately 40 million more men and boys under 65 than women and girls.

Chinese Women

The status of women in China is shockingly low by Western standards.   Many Chinese men still expect women to follow the traditional Three Obediences:  Obeying her father before marriage, her husband when married, and her sons in widowhood.  Obviously, Oprah, Vogue, and Cosmo have a very different take on the role of women in society, but this is in direct conflict with what women see everyday from Western media and it also is in conflict from the demands of a modern economy.

After all, it is pretty hard to supervise scores of employees and manage projects worth millions of dollars, as thousands of Chinese women do every day, but act like a submissive little flower around your husband or boyfriend, which is what most Chinese men want.  The cognitive dissonance of these competing social dictates causes is immense, and it is one of the primary reason that, according to the World Health Organization, somewhere around 500 Chinese women commit suicide every day.

So, many of these beautiful Asian women signing up to become modern mail order brides are not doing so for lack of romantic opportunity or, given China’s rapid economic growth, even financial opportunism. These Chinese mail order brides are really looking for love and the chance to fulfill their potential.