Understanding the Brazilian Mail Order Bride
Brazilian women, what could possibly make these hot, sultry lasses in micro bikinis any hotter? Well, what if you were dating one? Dating a Brazilian woman?
Now, that is an intriguing thought, but most single American or European men never give the idea much serious consideration and even fewer make any effort to court one of these sexy South American ladies.
First, it is not impossible to find the woman of your dreams, because there are literally thousands of sexy Brazilian mail order brides.
These sexy girls from Brazil are looking for guys just like you. Yes, just like you if you are honest, patient, hardworking, and generally follow the accepted social norms for how men are supposed to treat women in the modern Western world. Yes, it can help to be fit, funny, brilliant, and rich, but those attributes are essentially icing on the cake.
It is not complicated. These stunning Brazil babes want what every other woman wants from a boyfriend or husband: Someone who is honest, compassionate, reliable, hardworking, intelligent, funny, kind, and successful.
Yes, there has to be some chemistry, but Brazilian women are looking for something that is hard to find in Rio or Sao Paulo – a guy who is not obsessed with his own ego, honor, and standing in the eyes of his friends.
There are over seventy-eight million Brazilian women and they are among the most educated and upwardly mobile women in Latin America. In fact, GlobalIssues, an international monitor of education revealed the following facts, in 2010, about women in Brazil:
- In 2007, 53.3% of newly enrolled university students were women.
- For the past 15 years, women have accounted for 55% or more of newly enrolling students.
- Over 60% of graduating students are women.
There are over seventy-eight million Brazilian women. There is almost certainly a woman for any man willing to make the effort. Brazil girls are usually thought of as sultry brunettes – a mixture of Portuguese, Spanish, and Italian with Indian or African often mixed in to spice things up.
But Brazil is a country of immigrants and many English, Irish, and Welsh settled there in the 19th century. After World War II there was a large influx of mysterious Germans, so blonde Brazilian girls are not terribly rare.
You might end up with some interesting in-laws; there is even a large population of Japanese-Brazilians and Arab-Brazilians, so Brazilian brides really do come in every ethnic mix imaginable.
Brazil Girls – An International Reputation for Hottness
The ittsy bitsy, micro bikini is about as common in Brazil as parkas in Alaska or suits in boardrooms. It’s the un-official uniform of young Brazilian women, so most young women from Brazil treat their bodies like temples.
Most Brazilian babes are obsessive about their workouts and diet.
There are probably more Brazilian fitness models than you ever imagined. Fitness pageants are staged all over the country from the small country towns to Rio and Sao Paulo and these fitness pageants attract thousands of fit Brazilian bikini babes.
Successful Brazilian fitness models are real celebrities. Many become mainstream models and others go on to careers as television personalities or actresses.
Furthermore, being in great shape is simply more important in Rio than anywhere in the United States, except maybe Hollywood or South Beach, so Brazilian hard bodies are pretty much a dime a dozen.
You will be amazed!
Brazilian mail order brides are probably as fit and athletic as any women in the world, although some of those Eastern European brides certainly give them some real competition. Brazilian girls constantly work on toning their legs, tightening their tush, and developing nice abs, because in the back of her mind every beautiful Brazilian bride has an almost unreal fitness goals.
Girls from Brazil are often at the gym if they are not at the beach, because they know they have an international reputation for hotness to maintain, but they also enjoy a lot of other sports. Swimming, boating, and other water sports are universally popular with young Brazilian girls, because they often live close to the ocean.
In the cities tennis has really grown in popularity during the last decade and in smaller towns and parts of the interior of the country horseback riding is a common activity among young women.
Because of the generally wet climate and vast number of biting insects, Brazilian brides are less likely to have ever gone camping or hiking than women from Eastern Europe or the more temperate parts of Asia.
Brazilian Dating – What to Expect
Brazilian dating is usually pretty laid back and informal. Often dates are made on the spur of the moment in coffeehouses and bars, but Brazilian single girls also have a reputation for partying.
In part this is because of Carnival, but Brazil is home to one of the most vibrant party scenes in the world, particularly in Rio.
Brazilian ladies certainly know how to have a good time and the Brazilian dating scene generally feels familiar to American and European guys, but it tends to be a little dressier than you might find in most American or European cities.
Girls from Brazil pay serious attention to fashion, make-up, and beauty and you thought it was just random chance that there are so many sexy young Brazilian models.
No, in fact many of the sexiest Brazilian models have been quoted saying they never thought they were the most beautiful girl in their school or neighborhood.
According to these Brazilian models they just got lucky and there are many more back home as pretty as them or even prettier who just weren’t as lucky or perhaps interested in modeling.
So, girls from Brazil usually will dress up for a date. Often Brazilian men dress up and if you are going to a nice restaurant and one of the top clubs it is easy to feel underdressed for the Brazilian dating scene.
You don’t have to go crazy, but just remember that Brazilian women for marriage are looking at the big picture.
These are not 1990s Eastern European mail order brides desperate to escape a crumbling society. Hot Brazilian women live in one of the most vibrant, booming countries on the planet, so they have choices and you need to put your best foot forward.
Try to find the right style that fits you.
In Brazil dating tends to start out late. You go to a restaurant. After a nice slow dinner and a few drinks you move on to a club and that is a problem for a lot of guys.
Brazilian Women Love to Dance
When a Brazilian girl goes to a club she wants to party and when a Brazilian girl parties she wants to dance.
Dance - the word has been known to make brilliant trial attorneys stutter for an excuse and scared Navy Seals more than a midnight air assault. For a lot of guys dancing is simply scary. In the United Stated disco has been dead since the 1980s. You can go clubbing for years and never get your arm twisted to dance.
But in Brasil girls will expect you to dance, because when they party they dance and dance and dance. You first instinct will probably be to make excuses, but whatever you do - do not refuse to dance with your Brazilian girlfriend.
No matter how old you are or how tired you are, if your Brazilian bride wants to dance you better dance, because if you don’t dance your date will find someone else to dance with. You do not want that!
So, just dance with the pretty Brazilian girl you brought to the club. If you are American or even worse Canadian, British, or German she already knows you can’t dance. She probably knows that if you are an Aussie you think you can dance, but if you are Italian or Spanish she will probably have some expectations. That’s actually a little tougher.
It really doesn’t matter. If you are out with a stunning Brazil babe, just dance. Don’t worry about how you look. If she wanted a good dance partner she could snag any number of Brazilian guys and if she wanted dance lessons she could hop a short flight to Argentina.
So, don’t worry about how you look. Just do it! Dance like you simply don’t give a damn.
Tell your Brazilian fitness model that no one but her could get you to dance. Dancing with her is the same thing as giving her roses or taking her to a great restaurant: It is a gift. She doesn’t care about how you dance. What she wants to find out is how much you care about her, because she probably knows you don’t really want to dance – most middle age guys really don’t want to dance.
What she wants is your undivided attention, so give her your attention and get out there and dance with your Brazilian girlfriend.
Brazilian Mail Order Brides – Why They Want You!
The Brazilian economy is booming. Here are some facts about Brazil, as recounted in the CIA Factbook:
- Brazil has an 88% literacy rate.
- South America’s leading economic power with an abundance of minerals, agricultural richness, and low unemployment.
- As a sign of its world-wide prestige, it was elected for the 2010-2011 session, a non-permanent seat on the United Nations Security Council.
- Brazil is 100% energy-independent.
Many people believe that Brazil is going to be the next real economic superpower and economics are probably less important to Brazilian girls than to Russian or Asian mail order brides. In fact, if you peruse the profiles of any Brazilian dating site you will see that most of the women who are interested in becoming Brazilian brides are among the country’s most beautiful, educated, ambitious, and professionally successful women.
Many of these women come from Brazil’s most successful families. In fact, you probably have a better chance of meeting a really financially well off mail order bride from Brazil than from any of the other countries that produce lots of mail order brides. No joke, you might actually meet a woman from Brazil who has more money than you. That is rare, but it is not impossible.
So, why do these women who seem to have such a bright future in one of the world’s real up and coming countries want to give up all of that to take a shot on a European, Canadian, Australian, or American man?
The Culture of Machismo in Brazil
Yes, Machismo – it is really just that simple. Until the last few years it was considered acceptable for a Brazilian man to discipline his wife or girlfriend with a physical beating and as recently as the 1990s a Brazilian doctor was acquitted of killing his wife based on the defense that she had “insulted his honor” by not asking his permission every time she left the house.
There was no evidence she even cheated on him, but when he was acquitted the men in the courtroom gave him a standing ovation.
Even worse in the eyes of many beautiful Brazilian women is that many upper class Brazilian men still believe that it is there right, in fact almost their duty, to keep a mistress after they are married and juggle two or three girlfriends while they are bachelors.
Of course, to some extent this is true around the world, men cheat at substantially higher rates than women, but Brazilian men have raised keeping mistress and girlfriends to a high art.
Educated, cosmopolitan Brazilian women who sign up with mail order bride agencies are simply rejecting the system. They watch Hollywood movies and they read the internet. They know that the status of women is simply higher in Western countries than it is in Brazil.
That is the basic attraction for Brazilian mail order brides.
Like women from Eastern Europe and Asia they are tired of a clearly male dominated culture where they are second class citizens. That culture is changing, but it is not changing fast enough to suit the hot young Brazil girls you can see at the agencies we represent here at International Love Scout.