There’s one fact about Indian women of which you should be aware. Their eyes. Once you find a beautiful Indian woman (not hard), then looking into her eyes will be your journey’s end. Okay, that was a bit dramatic as an opener for a dating website review, but there’s a bit of truth in it. Or maybe that applies to all women.
The desikiss.com Indian Dating site is, obviously, aimed at people wanting to find an Indian partner. If you look at the population of that country, it runs second only to China with over 1.4 billion people.
If 50% of them are women, that means a lot of choices. But looking for a woman on an international dating site has its own hidden intricacies and hazards. It’s not simply doing a search and starting some communication.
Ever since International dating really hit its straps with lots of websites, lots of bad press, only the negative aspects being told but not stopping men (and some women) from looking outside their own country, it’s always been the cultural differences that proved to be the biggest stumbling block to a successful search and partnership.
Onlіnе dаtіng was viewed wіth a lоt оf suspicion fоr ԛuіtе a lоng time; mоѕt saw іt аѕ another avenue fоr social problems tо аrіѕе, but at thе еnd of the day, ѕосіеtу рrоvеd thаt ѕuсh a mеdіum to fіnd partners wоuld not bе thе еxсluѕіvе playground оf immoral and dаngеrоuѕ individuals.
Onlіnе dating filled a nееd of busy рrоfеѕѕіоnаlѕ whо hаd nо tіmе tо include thеmѕеlvеѕ in thе ѕосіаl scene, a need оf оvеrlу ѕhу реорlе whо соuld nоt muѕtеr еnоugh to face social situations.
Positive Aspects About Indian Women
India is no different but with some redeeming features that should fill a searcher with some extra confidence.
- Most Indians speak good English, some even better than a native speaker.
- Many women have access to and have gone onto higher education.
- Women in India are looking at alternatives to local men and the oppression of women in that country has a bit to do with that.
Indian dаtіng ѕіtеѕ are a tеѕtаmеnt to this realisation. There are many ѕtоrіеѕ оf аrrаngеd mаrrіаgеѕ or оf lоѕt lоvеѕ.
Mind уоu, nоt аll of thеm are unhарру; some of thеm hаvе found реrfесt lіvеѕ wіthіn the wаllѕ оf traditionalism thаt hаve bееn presented tо them ѕіnсе thеіr bіrth.
But thеrе іѕ an оutlеt nоw, еѕресіаllу fоr those whо hаvе lеft bеhіnd one kind of a lіfе and rеасhеd оut fоr аnоthеr. It іѕ nоt a ԛuеѕtіоn of рrоmіѕсuіtу, іt is not a question of blatant liberalism іn the fасе оf cultural traditionalism – іt is a ԛuеѕtіоn of choice.
Wіthоut thе іntеrnеt, thе dуnаmісѕ of Indian dаtіng thаt exist tоdау wоuld nоt еvеn be thеrе. Thе іntеrnеt dаtіng ѕсеnе should be applauded fоr revolutionising аnd introducing dаtіng tо аll ѕесtоrѕ оf ѕосіеtу.
A dating site like desiKiss.com has a lot going for it should you use it to find an exotic life partner.
Unfortunately, this website, like all those associated with the World Singles model of dating sites, has that air of sameness about it as the other however many that have been created using that template. Is that good or bad?
Well, the negative aspect is that the site lacks pizzazz! They have that bland web page which doesn’t get a person really excited about the journey they are about to embark on searching for the woman of their dreams.
The positive aspect is that if you have joined as a member on other similar sites, the familiarity means that by the time you are onto your 3rd dating site, it’s almost like riding a bike.
All the controls and directions are familiar, so navigating your way around the site will be quick and easy!
It’s true that dating sites use algorithms to help with matching. Well, at least that’s what they tell us. It’s probably doubtful that this group of World Singles dating sites went to the expense of installing Artificial Intelligence or a complex matching program.
However, there are a lot of questions that need to be answered for you to be able to provide a fairly comprehensive profile, along with a few photos and your age. At this point you can elect to answer all or none of the requirements except for the really basic stuff to get access to the site at the start. Birthday, gender, username and password.
On the Inside
This is where the questionnaires start asking about your likes, dislikes, political stance, religion, whether you like pets and kids, the music you listen to, the exercise you take and a few other pieces of personal information about yourself. If you’re genuine about looking for a partner and wanting to get the best match, fill this in.
This website has Bollywood prices! By that I mean it’s a cheaper version of Hollywood and the prices reflect that. Whether the website is not all that popular and is trying to entice customers or they have a lot of members and can afford lower prices I’m not sure.
It’s about $15 per month for 6 months and if you want to pay membership, that’s not a bad way to go. It would be an interesting exercise to see the stats on how many members pay just monthly compared to those that pay for 3 or 6 months.
The advantage of doing the 6 months is that the girls can be a bit shy and will want to build a relationship online. You are not going to do that in a month. You will also want to chat to more than one girl and each contact will take time to get to know.
Matches and Search
Like many of the sites in this group, the incidence of USA, Canadian and Australian based women popping up can be any one of the following – alarming, annoying or comforting.
Another thing that happened was when setting up the search criteria and then using the Photo Slideshow, of the first 20 profiles, 9 were not from India.
It’s things like that which make me think about weak links in the matching algorithms.
You can click on ‘World’ as a part of your search allowance and that can be an amusing area in which to play around. I tried 15 different countries with 10 of them being fairly obscure.
They, of course, had no profiles posted. But it was a lot of fun (albeit a waste of time) just seeing whether countries like Equatorial Guinea, Faroe Islands, the Vatican (well…??) and Wallis and Futuna (where is that?) had any females looking for husbands. They didn’t.
My suspicions that some profiles appeared on multiple sites was confirmed. It doesn’t matter where you find them as long as you are attracted. That makes me think that they have been added freely to fatten the book or the girls do get listed for free on as many of the World Singles sites as they like.
This is one of my pet peeves on many dating websites. More a frustration than an annoyance because the picture might give a hint of loveliness but it’s blurred, too far away or too dark, so you are not sure.
Is there a second photo? No! People that submit their profiles to dating sites MUST be aware that it’s the first point of introduction. Get it right, folks. Please!
Looks Good – Let’s Read the Profile
We are all shallow creatures when it comes to the opposite sex attracting you, right? If a photo grabs your attention, then you are going to stop long enough to read the profile and the intro statement.
A bad photo results in continued scrolling and nothing is bringing that person back for a second look.
- It’s the same style as other World Singles sites (-)
- Bland website, not a lot of creative attraction (-)
- The site seems to have quite a lot of women therefore more choice (+)
- Cost effective to the point of silly cheap (+)
- ‘Back to Search Results’ and ‘Photo Slideshow’ click ons (+)
- Easy Favorite add from Slideshow (+)
- Hotness Factor
- User Interface
- Number of Profiles
- Quality of Profiles
There’s one fact about Indian women of which you should be aware. Their eyes. Once you find a beautiful Indian woman (not hard), then looking into her eyes will be your journey’s end.
Matthew Harris is a Self Confessed Tech nerd who has spent the last 5 years traveling the world looking for love. He hasn’t found the right woman yet so he currently lives in Arizona with his 3 dogs.