Vietnamese Dating

If you’re not fortunate enough to be living in Vietnam, don’t let that stop you. You may want to visit eventually, but in the meantime, you can get to know some of these beautiful women via Vietnamese dating sites.

Our two favorite sites to meet sexy Vietnamese girls are VietnamCupid and Cherry Blossoms.  Cherry Blossoms is one of the oldest and most respected international dating sites and they have lots of profiles of women from Vietnam and the rest of Southeast Asia. 

VietnamCupid is a great site that is focused exclusively on sexy Vietnamese girls.  You can sign up to both for free and decide which one is right for you.

Vietnamese Girls

There’s good reason so many men say their preferred Asian woman is Vietnamese. Vietnamese society retains much of its traditional values and lifestyle in spite of the tremendous economic strides the country is making.

What is it that draws Canadians, Europeans, and Americans in such numbers to date and marry Vietnamese women? Let’s take a look at some of the major reasons:

Traditional Lifestyle

The typical Vietnamese girl, raised in a Vietnamese family, will exhibit wifely traits that are long gone in most of the Western world.

Even Vietnamese women with college degrees and great jobs will still understand the effect of treating her husband with great affection and care. It’s not unusual for a Vietnamese woman to provide very personalized and loving cleaning and cooking services to her husband.

Vietnamese Woman-Foreign Husband

You can meet your Vietnamese girlfriend either in her own country or, if she’s living abroad, in your country. A natural barrier of course is language. Unless one of you speaks the other’s language, developing a relationship will prove very difficult.

However, if you do share a language, what are the chances she wants to date a non-Vietnamese guy?

Well, if you’re in the USA, according to the 2000 census data, 22% of Asian-American women have a non-Asian husband. They don’t give a breakdown by Asian countries, but it’s evident that many Vietnamese women also marry non-Asians.

And although it’s only anecdotal, many men who have traveled or lived in Vietnam report that many Vietnamese women, once exposed to foreign men, prefer them. The reason many state is that Western men have more of a romantic side. Oftentimes, these women say, a Vietnamese man spends his whole store of romantic love in the courtship stage. Once married, all romance ends.

Relationship Development Speed

Go to any of the Vietnamese dating websites, and you’ll quickly see that a long courtship is neither expected nor wanted.

Listen to this ad that appeared at a large Vietnam-based dating site catering to foreign men and Vietnamese women:

Seeking man Age 33 to 50 for Marriage

I’m looking for a good man and faithful man to make friend and have serious relationship. The man want to spend time to share with me everything in this life. He can give me advises and understands and get together to enjoy the life.

This straightforward, down-to-business approach is not uncommon with Vietnamese women. Many women will go to great pains to communicate that they aren’t into “games” or “playing around”.

Vietnam Brides

One of the nice things about pursuing a Vietnamese bride is that Vietnam is an easy country to travel to with a variety of international carriers serving both Hanoi and Saigon, or Ho-Chi-Minh City as it is known today. Also, though the Vietnamese have fought an almost endless series of wars against the Chinese, Japanese, French, and Americans, they tend to really love foreign tourists.

In the southern part of the country there is a pretty good chance most Vietnamese girls have relatives in the United States and there tends to be a romanticized view of the United States. That can work in your favor. In fact, you probably have a better chance of meeting a Vietnam girl who speaks English than any other Asian ladies, except Filipinas.

Most Vietnamese women, over 80%, are Buddhist, but there is still a significant population of Catholics, although many left in the years after the fall of South Vietnam. Catholic Vietnamese girls tend to be serious about religion, at least when they get a little older.

In part, this is probably because there is a policy of official discrimination against the Catholic Church on the part of the government, so the Vietnam girls that remain Catholic tend to be more serious.

Vietnam has 54 ethnic groups, but ethnic Vietnamese or Kinh constitute about 85% of Vietnam's total population. The Tay and Thai, which account for 1.97% and 1.79% of Vietnam's population, are the next largest ethnic groups.

The Vietnamese economy has really boomed in the last few years and Vietnam has one of the best education systems in Asia, so you might be able to date a Vietnam girl who has a good career. However, you should be fully aware that home and family is very important to most Vietnam girls and you should remember that you are going to be involved with her entire family if you get serious into Vietnamese dating.