A problem that many men face when they are dating foreign women is what to do next. If you have been on a few dates and you feel that she is the women for you then there is the natural temptation to rush the dating process.
This is especially true if you are on dating vacation in a foreign country. You maybe leaving the country shortly and you don't want such a beauty to fall from your grasp.
But while a quick marriage proposal may seem like a very romantic gesture it is rarely the next best step. Even if you are leaving the country it does not mean that you will never get to see your lady again. It is better to take small steps which cement the relationship rather than rushing into a marriage.
The truth is within a few days it is impossible to really know someone no matter how deep you feel the connection is. If you try and speed up the dating process you are doing both a disservice to yourself and your possible future partner.
The next best step is to make sure that you are committed in some way to each other so that when you do leave the country you don't lose her to someone else. The secret is to be open about your intentions. Explain the fact that you feel like you have made a deep connection and want to take the relationship to the next step.
Ask her if she would be comfortable with seeing you exclusively. It may also be a nice gesture to provide her with a promise ring in order to establish that you are serious. It is important that she feels that you are genuine as much as it is important you do.
Talk to her about what her dreams for the future are and how she would feel about the idea of marriage. You want to discover what exactly she is looking for and whether she would be willing to move countries to be with you.
You may also need to meet her family at some point. It is natural that they maybe a little wary of you especially if you are older. One way to butter them up a little is to bring a few gifts. Show to them that you are the sort of man who can take girl of their little girl.
You will also need to establish how you are going to bring her to your home country so that you can see where the relationship will lead. If you have only been dating online this will be the first opportunity you will have had to meet in person. Unfortunately the visa requirements can be very strict in the United States. In many other western nations however it is much simpler to bring her over. All it takes is a passport and a plane ticket
Visa's and Other Formalities
It is important to understand that the requirements in the United States are there to protect you as well. The most common option when bringing a foreign woman into the United States is to use the K-1 Fiancé Visa. This program lets your lady stay in the United States for up to ninety days before you need to marry. You will also both need to sign a sworn agreement that you intend to marry. So only use this option if you are serious in your intentions. You must also provide documentation that you have met your intended wife outside of the United States before she can come.
To complete the K1 Visa you will need detailed information about your fiancé. This will include her maiden name if she has been married before, her date and place of birth, any previous marriages or divorce, and the names of any children. You will also need to supply matching information about yourself.
In addition you will need to provide copies of your bank statement as well as a financial statement which demonstrates that you are able to support her. As well as this you will need to sign an affidavit which states that you will support your intended wife and her children if any. You also have to sign an agreement that you will not seek any public aid for them for at least ten years. As you can see the process is quite strict and you are making some fairly serious promises so you want to make sure that you are certain before you undertake the K1 Fiancée Visa Process.
Make the Dream a Reality
After reading this book I hope you have come to realise that the dream of having a beautiful, caring wife or girlfriend is not only for multi-millionaires and a lucky few. Thanks to the opportunities that international dating has created is is possible once again for ordinary, normal men to have the kind of loving relationship that they deserve.
The key to international dating is to approach it with an open heart and the willingness to explore new cultures. Remember what it was like to date when you were a teenager? The excitement you felt, the sheer newness of it all. Well international dating is just like that. It is a chance to start over and to find the kind of woman you deserve.
International dating is not just an opportunity to meet beautiful women and to experience incredible romance. You will be amazed by how much you learn about the world and the possibilities it offers when you embark on your journey. If you truly want to get to know a foreign country fall in love with a woman who lives there.
And finally remember these women need you as much as you want them. You owe it to both of you to give international dating a try. Its a choice you will never regret.
ILS Article
