Best Vietnamese Dating Sites
Our two favorite sites to meet sexy Vietnamese singles are VietnamCupid and Cherry Blossoms. Cherry Blossoms is one of the oldest and most respected international dating sites and they have lots of profiles of women from Vietnam and the rest of Southeast Asia.
VietnamCupid is a great site that is focused exclusively on sexy Vietnamese single women. You can sign up to both for free and decide which one is right for you.
Vietnamese Girls - Why We Love Them
The girls of Vietnam can defiantly be quite stunning, with skin tones ranging from dark to light, sharp beautiful eyes and thin fit bodies. But it is more than exotic beauty that draws foreign men to Vietnamese beauties.
One of the main attractions of Vietnamese girls is that Vietnamese society still retains much of its traditional values and lifestyle in spite of the tremendous economic strides the country is making. The typical woman from Vietnam will exhibit wifely traits that are long gone in most of the Western world. Even Vietnamese women with college degrees and great jobs will still understand the effect of treating their husbands with great affection and care.
There are clearly defined lines between men and women, and what is expected from each of them. Vietnamese women think of their husbands as their ultimate priority and will see you as #1 in their life. These women have a strong sense of family as well as an upbringing in traditional values.
Women from Vietnam are generally quite submissive and well mannered. A Vietnamese woman's focus is primarily on taking care of the family and her husband. Some expats talk about the "lazy Vietnamese husband" syndrome which is basically the idea that Vietnamese husbands are lazy because their wives always take care of them.
Vietnam ladies are renowned for taking care of everything to do with the household. As the man, you would be quite pampered by your wife as long as you brought home the bacon. In their culture, the woman takes care of the household, the man earns the money. This balance means you have a clearly defined role - and you're simply not expected to do the woman's work as well.
In the west both men and women work and both maintain the household. However this is rarely the case in Asian societies except in major metropolises. Even then, the man is generally the primary breadwinner and the woman takes care of the majority of the housework. You can expect a Vietnamese woman to cook and clean for you. She will take care of everything at the house regardless of what you are doing.
In their culture this is just what a good woman does, and it's totally unacceptable that a man would have to do this. They would basically wonder what kind of wife he has that he is forced to do his wife's work. You are very unlikely to have many conflicts with a Vietnamese wife, the culture of submission and kindness amongst the women means very few shouting matches.
If you marry a Vietnamese girl, you will probably have a very happy life, and be well taken care of.
Dating a Vietnamese Woman
If you meet a girl online, the best way to build her trust is by not pushing too hard and being consistent. The girls may also be a bit more camera shy and post less photos online. This does not necessarily mean that they aren't beautiful. They are just more traditional and shy about showing their photos to the world.
Most women are quite serious and looking for a long term partner, so if you are interested in marrying a Vietnamese lady, it's probably going to be quite easy, but just remember that they rarely date without the long term goal of marrying whoever they are dating.
Go to any of the Vietnamese dating websites, and you'll quickly see that a long courtship is neither expected nor wanted. Listen to this ad that appeared on a large Vietnam-based dating site catering to foreign men and Vietnamese singles:
Seeking man Age 33 to 50 for Marriage
I'm looking for a good man and faithful man to make friend and have serious relationship. The man must want to spend time to share with me everything in this life. He can give me advises and understands and get together to enjoy the life.
This straightforward, down-to-business approach is not uncommon with Vietnam dating. Many women will go to great pains to communicate that they aren't into "games" or "playing around".
And although it's only anecdotal, many men who have traveled or lived in Vietnam report that many Vietnamese women, once exposed to foreign men, prefer them. The reason many state is that Western men have more of a romantic side. Oftentimes, these women say, a Vietnamese man spends his whole store of romantic love in the courtship stage; once married, all romance ends.
Vietnam Brides - Closer Than You Might Think
One of the nice things about pursuing a Vietnamese mail order bride is that Vietnam is an easy country to travel to with a variety of international carriers serving both Hanoi and Saigon, or Ho-Chi-Minh City as it is known today. Also, though the Vietnamese have fought an almost endless series of wars against the Chinese, Japanese, French, and Americans, they tend to really love foreign tourists.
In the southern part of the country there is a pretty good chance most girls have relatives in the United States and there tends to be a romanticized view of the United States. That can work in your favor. In fact, you probably have a better chance of meeting a Vietnam babe who speaks English than any other Asian ladies, except perhaps a Filipina.
Over 80% of the women from Vietnam are Buddhist, but there is still a significant population of Catholics, although many left in the years after the fall of South Vietnam. Catholic girls from Vietnam tend to be serious about religion, at least when they get a little older. In part, this is probably because there is a policy of official discrimination against the Catholic Church on the part of the government, so the Vietnam girls that remain Catholic tend to be more serious.
Vietnam has 54 ethnic groups, but ethnic Vietnamese or Kinh constitute about 85% of Vietnam's total population. The Tay and Thai, which account for 1.97% and 1.79% of Vietnam's population, are the next largest ethnic groups.
The Vietnamese economy has really boomed in the last few years and Vietnam has one of the best education systems in Asia, so you might be able to date a Vietnam girl who has a good career. However, you should be fully aware that home and family is very important to most Vietnamese girls and you should remember that you are going to be involved with her entire family if you get serious into Vietnamese dating.