Myth #5 - I'm Too Fat, Old or Ugly to Do This

Many men with an interest in international dating begin to get self-conscious and think that they wouldn't be successful due to their physical appearance or age.

This type of thinking is incredibly flawed.

A lot of beautiful women are looking to date internationally for reasons much deeper than finding someone young and hansome. If that's all they were looking for, they could easily find young and attractive men in their own country and bypass the trouble, effort, and time involved with dating someone in a different country.

These women are looking for a man that will treat them right and provide them with companionship and things that don't have access to in their home countries. Sure, part of the reason they're looking to meet someone in another country is the opportunity that it brings.

As you may know, in many of the countries where international dating is more popular for women, these women are often not given the same rights as men. Just like girls that you’d meet and date domestically, foreign girls are looking for a man that will treat them with respect and provide a safe environment for them. They want to be loved and find someone to love.

Your age and the way your look are just a tiny piece of the puzzle.

As you begin to correspond with these girls, you’ll get to learn about them and they’ll learn about you. In a way, international dating provides a component that you can’t get when you date locally. You get to work on your relationship and get to know someone long before you meet them when you date internationally.

You both get to know each really well on a personal level which helps to establish a stronger bond that makes your looks and your age less relevant than if you were dating locally and you met in person on the first date.

Many older men and men that our culture might not consider to be the most attractive have had tremendous success with international dating.

Okay, sure… if you’re 80 you’re gonna have to work a little harder than a 30 year old, but we’ve seen tons of profiles from attractive, intelligent women who are willing to take guys up to 99. 

One profile I read recently even put 57-104 in her “acceptable age range” on her dating profile!

Most of the women's profiles you will read on International dating sites will have a stated age rage - so if the girl is only interested in guys under 30 then you can just move on to the next profile.

Don’t let your age, looks, or the amount of hair on your head prevent you from taking the first step toward meeting the girl of your dreams.