Myth #4 - Foreign Dating Is Only For Rich Guys
One of the big reasons most men don't attempt to date internationally is the myth that doing so requires you to be rich. Many men believe that these beautiful young women are only interested in money and nothing else.
This can't be further from the truth. Sure, many of these women may look at international dating as a means to meeting someone and potentially moving to a country with more opportunities, but many of these women are interested in foreign dating for the exact same reasons you are.
They are truly looking for their soul mates and if they can find their soul mate in a place that also offers them social and financial advantages, what’s wrong with that?
It is true that some of the women that you'll meet will be after money and rich guys, but how is that any different than dating domestically? Motives for trying to date someone vary from person to person.
There are hundreds of reasons why a woman would be looking to meet someone, but you’ll run into the same good things and bad things whether you’re dating locally or internationally.
Like you, a lot of the women you’ll meet dating internationally are looking for a solid connection, someone interesting, and many are looking for their soul mate, “the one”, and true love.
But keep in mind, everyone is different and has different goals, dreams, and aspirations. Even though the dynamic of international dating is a little different than domestic dating, ultimately it’s about getting to know someone to see if your paths align.
There are plenty of regular guys that aren’t millionaires that have been highly successfully with international dating and have met some really amazing women. If you find that a girl is just after your money, if that’s not the type of girl you’re looking for, you can simply move on to the next girl just like you would if you were dating locally.
“Ok, so the girls aren’t all “gold diggers”, but isn’t international dating expensive?”
It can be, but once again, domestic dating can be expensive. Everyone has different tastes and different levels of income.
If you want to go jet setting around the world, you'll need to have plenty of money and flexibility in your work, but there are tons of girls out there that you can meet through international dating agencies that don't expect you to drop everything and come see them after the first conversation. (This isn’t smart anyway…)
You simply need to set a budget and stick to it. These days, if you plan your trips in advance and book your lodging and airfare wisely, you can often travel internationally for very reasonable rates.
I have regularly seen international airline tickets that were the same price or even cheaper than domestic tickets depending on when the flight was booked.